Blogging really does help. I have received such beautiful comments about my recent situation with my mother. I really do enjoy reading your inspiring messages. Although it doesn't take the hurt away, it does make me feel loved and supported by so many. So thank you.
On another note....my son had a rough second half of the night....For some reason, he does NOT like his co-sleeper....I'm not sure if it is too big, too uncomfortable, too cold, or what the problem may be. He did sleep from about 9:30pm until 2:3oam, so that was nice...But he fussed in his bed from 3am until 5am (after his bottle), so Micki had to pick him up and he slept on her chest until 8am. I know he is only 3 weeks old and they say you can't spoil a child that young, but I'm afraid he'll get too used to sleeping on us and we'll have one hell of a problem to deal with down the line...But he's just so damn cute!
This afternoon, Javi slept in his co-sleeper for his morning nap!!! He slept for 3 hours!!! I was waiting and waiting and waiting for him to wake up! And when he finally did, I missed him so much! I couldn't wait to see those beautiful eyes! He's such a good boy! And I love him so much!
3 comments:
You can't spoil a baby, love. Javier feels so safe with us in bed. He is a helpless little baby. I am honored that he loves to sleep on my chest. I wake up in the morning and I smile and think this is heaven.
Can you believe that this will be our first Mother's Days? I hope you love the gift I get you.
Always,
Your Wife
hey ann, i'm sorry you're feeling so conflicted about your mom. unfortunately we can't choose our blood family, but we can choose who we associate with. you must be experiencing some intense feelings with having just given birth...my heart breaks for you. i hope you find your inner peace and make amends so you can live your life. i'm thinking of you. love, j
Darling
You cannot spoil a baby, javier deserves to be on you 24 hours a day, you love him and he can feel that. Also, you might try elevating him slightly after you lay him down once he has eaten, This was about the time that Lux's acid reflux kicked in. He was miserable when we would lay him on his back, flat. elevating him helped but it did not stop the night cuddling. They know the difference between day and night sleeping and they wanna be by you and smell you all night long. Just do it! I wanna win the $50 I bet you before you guys were pregnant!!! hahahaha just kidding.
Love
suzie
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